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"Butterflies in May"
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"Karen
Hart writes with a sweet simplicity that often brings a lump
to your throat. Her tale of Ali Parker, a pregnant teen from
a good family, is heartbreaking because it is so devastatingly
honest. With gentle insistence, Hart weaves a story that is
as complex as reality itself. Butterflies in May
is a beautiful debut, a thoughtful addition to ‘real
world’ YA literature.”
—LIBBY
STERNBERG, EDGAR-NOMINATED AUTHOR OF UNCOVERING SADIE'S
SECRETS AND FINDING THE FORGER
"Butterflies
in May is a moving, coming-of-age story that explores
with sensitivity how one high school student makes a decision
that is right for her—against her mother's wishes—when
she discovers that she’s pregnant. Through Ali, Karen
Hart allows the reader to understand how careful kids can
get pregnant, how people learn what is right for them—without
assuming that this means their path is right for everyone—and
how the key to adolescent health and a healthy transition
to becoming an adult is knowledge, understanding, and tolerance.
This is a book that will move young adults, while providing
them with a richer understanding of the world around them.”
—PETER
BEARMAN, PROFESSOR, DEPARTMENT OF SOCIOLOGY, AND DIRECTOR,
INSTITUTE FOR SOCIAL AND ECONOMIC RESEARCH AND POLICY, COLUMBIA
UNIVERSITY
"Teenagers
often keep traumatic experiences to themselves and spiral
into depression or denial. The fact that teen pregnancy is
a delicate subject makes it even more difficult to talk about
openly. Butterflies in May breaks this taboo and
brings readers immediately into Ali’s personal crisis
of teen pregnancy, thereby providing a springboard for discussion
and learning."
—CATHARINE
FARRELL, LIBRARIAN, MONTGOMERY HIGH SCHOOL, SANTA ROSA, CA
"Hart
has taken a difficult topic—teen pregnancy—and
turned it into an outstanding examination of the whole experience.
As a former coordinator of a teen pregnancy/parenting program,
I wish this novel had been available to use in my classroom
and school. Butterflies in May captures the emotional
upheavals and decision making that occur during a teen pregnancy.
It should be required reading for all teenagers AND their
parents.”
—MADELON
MATILE, FORMER HIGH SCHOOL COORDINATOR, TEEN PREGNANCY &
PARENTING PROGRAM, BLUFFTON, SC
"I
loved Butterflies in May! I read the book in one
afternoon. As a freshman in high school, it gave me real insight
into the challenges and consequences teenagers face when they
choose to become involved in sexual relationships. It really
touched my heart!”
—SARAH
HICKAM, AGED 14, STUDENT AT POPE JOHN PAUL THE II HIGH SCHOOL,
HENDERSONVILLE, TN
“Karen
Hart's Butterflies in May is a compelling coming
of age novel, and a captivating and frank new book. In this
moving story of a young woman facing the dilemma of an unintended
pregnancy, the author beautifully captures the emotions of
first love, the roller-coaster ride of emotions when facing
the dilemma of an unintended pregnancy, and the feelings evoked
when romantic ideals clash with the realities of the ultimate
decision. Hart's depictions of parents, friends, as well as
health care providers are vividly drawn and are presented
in a balanced and insightful manner. By presenting the kaleidoscope
of complex emotions that surface as life-shaping choices are
made, the book offers parents and teens a wonderful opportunity
to talk and share, through book clubs, classrooms, and drama
productions, and as a teaching tool in a number of community
settings.”
—DR.
CLAIRE D. BRINDIS, PROFESSOR OF PEDIATRICS AND HEALTH POLICY,
UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA AT SAN FRANCISCO
“Hart
brilliantly and realistically describes the emotional decisions
that arise for teens who are pregnant. All teens, whether
sexually active or not, and whether male or female, should
consider Butterflies in May essential.”
—KRISTIN
FLADSETH, AGE 18, DARTMOUTH COLLEGE STUDENT
“Butterflies
in May is a realistic, heartrending story of a teenage
girl’s traumatic experiences with an unintended pregnancy.
The reader follows Ali’s thoughts and emotions as she
considers whether to become part of the 29 percent of teens
who have abortions, the 57% of teens who keep their babies,
or the 11% of women who give up their babies for adoption.
The story brings forth sage advice on decision making for
teens while capturing the passion of a teen’s first
love and the struggle between a parent’s wish to protect
her child and a teen’s need for independence. It is
also a remarkably timeless book. Free of pop culture or historical
references, it could be a story from 1975 or 2015.”
—YVONNE
C. ERVIN, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, THE CANDIE’S FOUNDATION,
WHICH IS DEVOTED TO “EDUCATING AMERICA'S YOUTH ABOUT
THE DEVASTATING CONSEQUENCES OF TEEN PREGNANCY”
“As
an educator and therapist, I’ve had the privilege of
entering the world of those who feel lost—overpowered
and overwhelmed by choices and consequences. Butterflies
in May tells such a story as Ali Parker makes a difficult
journey to discover answers that’ll satisfy the integrity
of her heart. It’s a book about finding courage and
strength in the face of sorrow and loss. It’s also about
the sacrificial gift of love that heals not just one heart,
but many hearts.”
—LLOYD
FRITZ, EDUCATOR AND MARRIAGE FAMILY THERAPIST, SANTA ROSA,
CA
“Butterflies
in May is a poignant novel that captures so many of the
issues associated with teen pregnancy—adolescent sexual
development, romantic relationships, reproductive rights,
reproductive services for teens, family relationships, educational
demands, and planning for the future. The reader accompanies
the novel’s main character, Ali Parker, through many
of the decisions and emotions she faces after learning she
is pregnant, as well as the emotions and reactions of her
boyfriend, best friend, and family. Author Karen Hart thus
creates a perfect resource for educators to use with youth,
parents, and professionals who work with young people. The
opportunities for critical discussion about the key issues
and values appear on almost every page. Short of shadowing
a pregnant teen through her pregnancy, there is no better
way to find out what it’s like to be a teenager faced
with an unplanned pregnancy.”
—LORI
A. ROLLERI, MSW, MPH, SENIOR PROGRAM MANAGER, ETR ASSOCIATES,
A NATIONAL NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION THAT CONDUCTS ADOLESCENT
REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH RESEARCH, TRAINING, AND PROGRAM DEVELOPMENT,
SANTA CRUZ, CA
“Butterflies
in May soars right into the hearts of young and old readers
alike. It takes you into an unparalleled journey through the
life of an expectant teenager. Author Karen Hart does an exceptional
job of pulling you right into the mind of an adolescent faced
with a life altering decision: whether to have an abortion,
keep her newborn, or give her baby up for adoption. Butterflies
in May made me feel as if I was Ali (the expectant teenager).
I got a better understanding of what it would be like if I
were to become pregnant. With that information, I believe
I'm even better equipped to teach my PSI (Postponing Sexual
Involvement) class to pre-teens, who are curious about sex.
I will definitely be using Butterflies in May as
a teaching tool. This book is a must have for all families
because it opens up channels of discussion. Butterflies
in May has broken the chains of silence that have held
this topic (teenage pregnancy) captive for years.”
—CRYSTALYN
THOMAS-DAVIS, PSI TEEN LEADER, WALNUT HILLS HIGH SCHOOL ’07,
CINCINNATI, OH
“Butterflies
in May depicts a very honest and heart wrenching story
of the life, decisions, and relationships of a pregnant teenager.
The uncertainty that Ali experiences regarding her choices
in pregnancy and her accompanying feelings are so true to
life. As a case manager at a home for pregnant teens, I see
this situation with every girl who walks through our door.
Karen Hart creates a wonderful story that can help any pregnant
teen realize that what she is feeling and experiencing regarding
her pregnancy is normal and felt by many who are in the same
situation.”
—COURTNEY
SMITH, CASE MANAGER AT BRIDGEWAY, A HOME FOR PREGNANT TEENS,
LAKEWOOD, CO
“Butterflies
in May is a wonderful story about a teenage girl who
finds out she’s pregnant. The story immediately captures
the reader’s attention because the characters are so
real and their feelings so easy to relate to. The story offers
a message that’s extremely important in today’s
world. Though parents don’t want their children exposed
to discussions about sex, teens are constantly bombarded with
the topic. While TV shows glamorize sexual activities, this
book offers a very real picture of the consequences of being
sexually active at a young age. Karen Hart has written the
story in a way that allows the reader to become a part of
Ali Parker's life. As the story progresses, readers may find
themselves questioning their own feelings about sex, abortion,
and adoption. Readers undoubtedly will find themselves devastated,
excited, and confused as Ali experiences these emotions herself.
(Because the story deals with teenage sexuality, students
in junior high may need some guidance from their parents while
reading the book.)”
—MORGAN
ZERWAS, MIDDLE SCHOOL TEACHER, SANTA ROSA, CA
“I
think Ali Parker is a strong, brave woman who made the right
decision for her and the baby. She kept her head up when things
got tough and stuck through it. I really enjoyed this book.
When Ali had to make hard decisions, I felt as if I was right
there in the middle of the conversations, making some decisions
with her. It was touching and had very strong points. I think
this book is really helpful for teens and young teens because
it shows the consequences of having sex and the complications
you might have to go through. It will also help teens understand
that it is hard to have a baby when you already have plans
and goals for your life. Thank you for giving me the chance
to read this wonderful book.”
—VALADIA
LEE, TEEN LEADER, POSTPONING SEXUAL INVOLVEMENT PROGRAM, 11TH
GRADE, HUGHES CENTER PAIDEIA PROGRAM, CINCINNATI, OHIO
“As
a former teacher of adolescents, I recommend Butterflies
in May to any student faced with life-altering decisions.
The book provides a catalyst for discussing a sensitive issue
in the classroom because the characters represent many voices
in the pro-choice/pro-life debate. Even students not personally
touched by teenage pregnancy will learn from Ali’s emotional
roller coaster as she struggles to make the best choice for
all involved. Karen Hart's writing will appeal to the adolescent
reader.”
—LINDA
WEDWICK, FORMER MIDDLE SCHOOL TEACHER, NOW ASSISTANT PROFESSOR,
CURRICULUM & INSTRUCTION DEPARTMENT, ILLINOIS STATE UNIVERSITY
“This
story of teen pregnancy takes the reader through both the
mother and father's relationship, ambivalence, and the many
difficult decisions that take place in a 10-month period surrounding
Ali's pregnancy. Each decision involves a detailed intellectual,
emotional, and relationship consideration. The book is instructive
and moving because it tries to present the issue from the
father and mother's relationship to each other. I like the
counselor's advice that people make their decisions by their
actions, more than by their words. Ali's most important decision
is based on an often neglected realization that ‘every
child deserves the love of two parents.’ Butterflies
in May is an educational story that will teach teens
how a teen pregnancy turns your life inside out.”
—CHRISTOPHER
KRAUS, JD, MTS, ADOLESCENT ADVOCACY MANAGER, CINCINNATI CHILDREN'S
HOSPITAL MEDICAL CENTER
“This
book is one of those rare novels that immediately engages
the reader, taking you on a journey of the mind, body, and
spirit, all the while providing valuable insight to an all
too prevalent issue—teen pregnancy. The statistics are
staggering, and they cross all educational, social, and economic
levels. Yet teenagers, ruled by their emotions, still fall
victim to the it-won't-happen-to-me syndrome. Karen
Hart's realistic, sensitive, and compassionate approach to
the subject enlightens without lecturing. A beautifully offered
story, Butterflies in May should top the list of
required reading for all high school students.”
—LORI
FLADSETH, MIDDLE SCHOOL TEACHER, SANTA ROSA, CA
“I
loved Butterflies in May. It addresses a major problem
I see almost daily—an increasing number of pregnant
teenagers. It accurately lays out the emotion-charged decision-making
process the girls undergo. It portrays the teenage boys in
just the ways I’ve come to observe. And I cried the
last two chapters. May every teenager, boy or girl, get a
chance to read this terrific book—before they, too,
run headlong into the problem.”
—DR.
ELLIE TAYLOR, GYNECOLOGIST, BALTIMORE, MD
“Ali's
difficult decision—her decision-making process and what
happens to her thereafter—is what this story is all
about. The storyline is well told and very readable, at least
from my observations of thirty-five years in the private practice
of Obstetrics and Gynecology. The way the family moves from
what was general support for the initial course of action
to suggesting another direction, for better or worse, was
quite realistic. The boyfriend's leaving after an initial
commitment, is, in reality, what we see commonly. Also quite
realistically described was the scene outside the clinic—I
see this same scene outside our clinic every Saturday. (In
our state, we have enacted ‘Bubble Laws’ for the
patient's protection.) I regard Butterflies as an
excellent springboard for discussions in high school, and
even junior high, social studies, science, biology, and sexuality
classes. Well done!”
—DELL
BERNSTEIN, M.D., OB/GYN, DENVER, CO
“Karen
Hart has written a compelling story that explores the complexity
of unintended teenage pregnancy in America today. She doesn’t
ignore the authenticity of young love or the power of the
first blossom of passion. Though Ali Parker and her boyfriend
Matt Ryan would both like to turn back time, the reality is
that they must face the consequences of their actions and
finally come to terms with what they feel is the ‘right
thing to do’—together and independently. Ms. Hart
is well versed in adolescent development, and the push-pull
of heart and mind is beautifully illustrated in her book as
Ali Parker makes a critical decision about her future—one
she makes with the tough and tender grace we see every day
in our teenagers. Thankfully, they have access to public health
and social services that offer the options they need to make
difficult and very grown-up decisions. By reading Butterflies
in May, we feel as if we’ve been at the family
kitchen table for Ali’s senior year in high school,
and her journey into the adult world will resonate with both
teenagers and parents alike.”
—MARY
MARTHA WILSON, DIRECTOR OF TRAINING AND TECHNICAL ASSISTANCE,
HEALTHY TEEN NETWORK (FORMERLY KNOWN AS THE NATIONAL ORGANIZATION
ON ADOLESCENT PREGNANCY, PARENTING AND PREVENTION)
“Karen
Hart’s Butterflies in May is a gut-wrenching
yet realistic look at teen pregnancy. Told in the first person,
Ali’s emotional, mental, and physical journey is a wonderfully
accurate account that shows the far-reaching ripple effect
that one ‘mistake’ can have. We as readers experience
excellent character development in the reactions of the boyfriend,
her parents, her friends, his parents, a trusted relative,
teachers, and counselors. Often, teens naively think ‘it’s
my baby, so it’s my decision,” but teen pregnancy
forever changes so many lives. The reader’s emotions
will run the gamut as Ali explores her options—abortion,
adoption, parenting. Perhaps there is the realization that
once the threshold of teen sex is crossed, life’s options
change dramatically. This book is not only for girls, but
also for boys and their families to read, and to frankly discuss
‘what if’ scenarios – the challenges and
consequences of decisions before taking the leap into being
sexually active. As Ali's mom points out, being well informed
does not preclude our doing dumb things. I am haunted by a
sad question that will always remain unanswered—what
would Ali and Matt’s future have been under different
circumstances?”
—DEBRA
SMITH, HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER, LITTLETON, CO
“Butterflies
in May is an insightful, true-to-life look into the heart
of teenage pregnancy. Karen Hart has captured the struggle,
heartache, indecision, and joy of teenage pregnancy. Her accurate
portrayal had me in tears as I remembered my own experience
as a pregnant teen. I went through the same emotions and decision-making
process as Ali, the main character, and I’m glad that
this book is out there for others to read and benefit from.
I recommend Butterflies in May to everyone, whether
they are experiencing a teenage pregnancy, have someone close
to them in this situation, or just want to read an amazing
and heartfelt book. I only wish this story had been around
when I was eighteen.”
—JESSICA
STRINGER, TEACHER AND MOTHER, GREENVILLE, TX
“Butterflies
in May is a touching story. I was moved by Hart’s
ability to convey the joy and heartbreak of a first love,
the impossible number of emotions felt with unplanned pregnancy,
and the very real teenage pressures of thinking about the
future. Her story provides an over-the-shoulder glance at
the reality of teenage pregnancy and the tough choices that
go with it. I felt sympathy for both Ali and Matt as they
faced this difficult situation, both unprepared for the hard
choices they would have to make. Hart provides a wealth of
information on the options and resources available to pregnant
teens, as well as the advice that support is out there, and
no one has to go through it alone.”
—AMY
BRENINGER, SCIENCE TEACHER, MARIA CARRILLO HIGH SCHOOL, SANTA
ROSA, CA
“Butterflies
in May is a story that chronicles a journey, taking a
group of high school seniors along a winding path with unexpected
obstacles and leading them into the realm of maturity. The
book tackles the social taboo of teenage pregnancy with dignity,
portraying the unsettling magnitude of premature adult responsibility.
Ali Parker, the centerpiece of the novel, is seventeen and
struggling to accept her predetermined future. She is forced
into making choices that seem incomprehensible. The book focuses
on how Ali arrives at her decisions, some that she will second-guess
for many years, and provides insight into how her actions
affect those around her, surprising even herself. Each character
with whom she interacts is faced with typical adolescent problems,
and each independently wrestles with choices that must be
made to foster self-acceptance into adulthood. Karen Hart
has written a story that responsibly teaches hard truths about
the consequences of youthful impulse without imposing a verdict,
providing an effective tool for pondering choices that adolescents
rarely think will ever need their own personal consideration.
She creates an avenue for empathetic understanding that immunity
does not exist in life, but amnesty does.”
—NANCY
BRODBECK, ASSISTANT PRINCIPAL, WARRENSBURG-LATHAM HIGH SCHOOL,
WARRENSBURG, ILL.
“I
was engaged from the beginning. Sharing emotions of happiness,
frustration, hope, and sadness with all the characters, I
felt involved in the story. Reading this book is a safe way
for a reader to experience and learn about unspoken topics.
The physical, psychological, and emotional changes women go
through during pregnancy were described perfectly. There were
a variety of subjects exposed throughout the book that are
extremely important: family, friendships, teen pregnancy,
and high school love. Each topic was introduced and worked
through, eventually coming to terms with the most positive
way to handle all situations. Karen Hart painted a beautiful
picture of adolescence and life. Butterflies in May
is an incredibly appropriate book for high school students.
I would recommend this book to young adult and adult readers
alike.”
—KARA
LEMKE, PHYSICAL EDUCATION TEACHER, MARIA CARRILLO HIGH SCHOOL,
SANTA ROSA, CA.
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